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    Mythbuster: Contentment in Singleness Means Being Single Forever

    One myth that is detrimental to singles living abundantly is that contentment in singleness means being single forever. If you believe this myth you will be more likely to settle in an unhealthy relationship or be dissatisfied in singleness. So let’s debunk this myth!


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    Birthday Lessons in Singleness

    It was my birthday yesterday, which means it’s the 33rd year I’ve celebrated my birthday single. As a present to me and you, I reflected and came up with 33 lessons I’ve learned in singleness.


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    How to Make Decisions as a Single

    Making decisions as a single who lives alone is hard. Especially if you’re indecisive like me. Read the post to learn how to make wise decisions in 4 Steps.


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    5 Tips for Going Solo to Events

    Are you a single introvert? If so, then going solo to events can be a nightmare. Don’t let your singleness hold you back from meeting people and going to events. Follow these 5 tips to make the most of your next solo event!


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    3 Tips For When People Try to Set You Up

    As a single, how many times have people tried to set you up? It can be a fun experience but it can also feed into lies you believe about your singleness or bring up negative emotions. Read this week’s post for my 3 Tips For When People Try to Set You Up.


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    Lust and the Christian Single: 4 Steps to Handle Lust

    How do you struggle with lust? Lust is rampant today even in Christian communities. But the familiarity of lust does not mean we shouldn’t deal with it. I’m a very practical person so this week for part two of the Lust and the Christian Single series, I’m going through 4 practical steps to help you…


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    How to Respond to “Why Are You Still Single?”

    Aunt Mildred strikes up a conversation with you leading quickly to her asking, “Why are you STILL single?” This week in the blog we dive into why people ask that dreaded question and what your response can be based on who’s asking. In all things remember your relationship status does NOT mean anything about your…


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    3 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day as a Single

    What’s the most commercialized holiday of them all? If you answered Valentine’s Day, you’re right! With all the reminders of love, the month of February can make singles go into hiding. But read the blog this week to hear why I choose to celebrate holidays, including Valentine’s Day. Plus learn three ways you can celebrate…


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    How to Keep a Roommate

    “I bought a house” were the worst words my roommate ever said to me. Having roommates I was close with was the greatest blessing. Through all the years of being a roommate a learned a few things. If you want to keep your GREAT roommates, read the blog this week to learn 4 tips.


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    How to Get a Roommate Worth Keeping

    Roommates can be the greatest blessing or the biggest stress. I’m a big fan of roommates and after living with them for 12 years I’ve put together 7 tips for finding a roommate worth keeping. If you want intentional, Christ-centered community, a roommate can be a GREAT place to start. It takes work to develop…


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    4 Tips to Move From Casual Friends to Deep Community

    Are you investing in your community? Community is essential to living abundantly as a single. It takes work to build and keep a healthy community. Read on to learn my 4 tips to move from casual friendships to deep community.


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    7 Tips for Being Single for the Holidays

    Tis the season for cuddling on the couch while watching a hallmark movie with a cup of cocoa. It’s the season of bundling up and walking down the decorated streets hand in hand with the one you love. Only problem is… you have no one to cuddle with, and no hand to hold. Read more…